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well i'm tired of sending out "hi"s and never getting any further than that so if your interested drop me a line dont stand me up if your not gonns show say so
I 'm recently divorced starting all over again new house new job
Just off active duty in January living in Ware MA
I was an MP in the Army National Guard went to Iraq was gone for 3 years returned broken but alive, yeah, I am a court officer normally. I work hard, I play hard, and I have three beautiful boys
I enjoy going camping, hiking, biking. My hobbies include out door sports mostly medieval sports sword fighting horseback riding. I also enjoy late night cuddling =yes I said that- I am not a stay at home type of person I like to go on a moments spurt some times other times I’m a grab a blanket put in a movie and cuddle on the couch. I'm told I’m a romantic, I know I am somewhat. I’ll stop to watch the swans on the Tigris or the sun set on the hills. I enjoy life. Its gods gift to us why waist it by shutting ourselves away. I enjoy life I like to stay busy. The Marine in me says adapt the army says adjust the dad says overcome obstacles and move on with life its more fun as a teem than as an individual. Getting lost is an adventure that wasn’t planed, not a bad thing, just more interesting
I'm interested in someone who can spend time with me and help me learn to enjoy life again.
You can write me as Specfig on Yes Always Have One On tap use the caps
I’m not into head game so don’t play them. I hate that. If you’re going to contact me you need a pic. I show you me I need to see who writes me or I don’t respond. If there is no attraction even the slightest then why bother it has to go both ways. Please NON smokers or some one willing to quit my sons are asthmatic
If you are from another country and looking for someone who will either send you money or marry you to bring you to the US, or pay sex sights to talk to you, then I'm not the one, but good luck with that. I'm just not that desperate, sorry! I am honestly looking for my true companion and soul mate. So, if you are serious, and not into playing head games. Then feel free to drop me a line.

My kids:
They re teenagers. That's all I have to say about that.
Friends:
I have some. Wouldn't want to be greedy.
Vehicle(s):
I have a minivan yes but its roomy for my sons and ALL thier friends great for camping and a motor cycle
Laughing:
I can laugh at myself and yes...at others. So, if you do something stupid well; expect to have me laugh
Dancing close:
love it
Cooking:
certified military chief
A hug just because:
Aren't those just the best???
Walk on the beach:
Absolutely!!! Have you tried it lately??? Hmm...
Cuddling:
cuddling on the couch during a movie??
Dislike:
I think it goes without saying...liars, cheaters, druggies, drunks, emotionally detached, needy, whiny, psyko, hypochondriacs...please seek therapy.

That pretty much covers me. What else do you want to know about me? Want some of my attention??? I have posted a picture; how about you? I would really like to put your name with a face.
specfig@yahoo.com

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